Dave Winer Says:

Don't tell the girl you want girls./Tell her you want her.

This is a bigtime rookie mistake in college. You watch lame chick flicks with a girlfriend, ex-girlfriend, whoever... and you see a guy tell a girl that he has a crush on her, and they fall in love... yadda yadda yadda.

For college girls, its all about pursuit, and challenge. In college, as with many things in life, the exact opposite of common sense is the truth.